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Agape Dinner Blessings

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This entry was posted on 3/27/2006 3:35 PM and is filed under Church News.

Over the years we have stated that we are a church that doesn't want to get bogged down in meaningless tradition.  I think that is still true of us.  One of our traditions has been to hold full congregational fellowship dinners which we call Agape Dinners (it doesn't have the confusing connotations that the term "Love Feasts" would have for those in our culture).

These dinners have been marked by true fellowship--the sharing of life together--that the Scriptures speak concerning the life of the church in Jerusalem in Acts 2:42-47.  We have laughed together, cried together, comforted one another, prayed for one another, disciplined the unrepentant and restored the same when he or she repented, and always enjoyed good food and lots of singing and praise.  We've met new friends and bonded them into our fellowship even as we shared in the Lord's Table.  We've laid hands on members and prayed for them as we've sent them out to minister for Christ in other places.  And we've consoled ourselves through tears as we've said "good-bye" to those whom God has moved to other parts of the world.

But has this tradition lost its meaning?  Are they getting to be too much trouble?  We used to do them every month when some of us were quite a bit younger and with fewer children.  We now only hold them in the months of September, November, January, March, and May, with an occasional summer picnic.

What do you think?  Are they worth it?  Should we continue them?  I have my own opinion.  What's yours? 

Tradition is not a bad thing in and of itself.  I guess we have to decide whether the tradition has lost its meaning or not.

Wanting to hear the voice of the people, Pastor Brian

 

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    • 3/28/2006 12:50 AM Denise wrote:
      Since we're still laughing together, crying together, comforting one another, praying for each other, and enjoying good food and singing and praise, etc., I would say that the tradition hasn't lost its meaning at all. Those 'Love Feasts' are still a valuable time for connecting as a Body in ways we simply can't on Sunday mornings.
      I don't know that I'd want to have an Agape Dinner every month, mainly because I find it hard enough to connect with individual families (from within or outside Open Door) on Sunday 'visiting days' as it is now. I also wouldn't want to start feeling like they're routine -- which (in my mind, anyway) might happen if we held them every month.
      If the consensus of the Body is that we should try that, though, I'll give it a whirl. I admit that even as things are now, there are times when I'm dragging my feet about attending, thinking about all the other things I think I ought to be doing and finding plenty of logical reasons to stay home. But I am always blessed by these times of sharing food and fellowship, and I believe the Lord is always glorified by our praise and care for one another, so I never regret having participated.
      What do you all think about having a brief fellowship time after the service on one of the weeks in those months when we aren't having an Agape Dinner? Something like what we enjoyed last Christmas Day -- more formal than hanging out in the hallway after church, but not so formal that we feel like we're sacrificing a huge part of our day. Just coffee, hot chocolate and donuts (or tea and fruit -- I don't care) in the party rooms and enough time for a little extra visiting.
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      1. 4/11/2006 3:24 PM Cathy David wrote:
        Sounds fine to me Denise. I will be happy to take care of all the refreshments if we decide to do this. Maybe we should take a poll.
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